Friday, September 20, 2024

its good to be back!

Its almost 10 years since i last posted!
Time flies....
So much has happened since then
I am go glad i am still able to log in to this account  =D



Quick summary from where I left off,

2014 was my first year in the commercial world, after E&Y 
2015 was the year i met the love of my life
2018 was the year i got married, and moved into my own house
2020 was the year my son came along
2021 job crisis...
2021 rebounded to new heights
2022 started my own business
2022 suffered a minor blow (a good wake up call)
2023 sold my house and shifted out into a rental flat
2024 picked up photography




Thursday, September 25, 2014

Friday, September 5, 2014

Inspirations from Steve Job

have faith that the dots will somehow connect in the future...

keep looking for the love of your life, be it on the personal level or the professional level, do not settle until you find it....

always be prepared to say your goodbyes...

Wednesday, July 30, 2014

醒世歌

憨山大師醒世歌簡釋
作者:梁國雄
原載於2002年8月《普明快訊》

红尘白浪两茫茫,忍辱柔和是妙方,到处随缘延岁月,终身安分度时光。
休将自己心田昧,莫把他人过失扬,谨慎应酬无懊恼,耐烦作事好商量。

从来硬弩弦先断,每见钢刀口易伤,惹祸只因闲口舌,招愆多为狠心肠。
是非不必争人我,彼此何须论短长,世事由来多缺陷,幻躯焉得免无常。

吃些亏处原无碍,退让三分也不妨,春日才看杨柳绿,秋风又见菊花黄。
荣华终是三更梦,富贵还同九月霜,老病死生谁替得,酸甜苦辣自承当。

人从巧计夸伶俐,天自从容定主张,谗曲贪嗔堕地狱,公平正直即天堂。
麝因香重身先死,蚕为丝多命早亡,一剂养神平胃散,两种和气二陈汤。

生前枉费心千万,死后空留手一双,悲欢离合朝朝闹,寿夭通日日忙。
休得争强来斗胜,百年浑是戏文场,顷刻一声锣鼓歇,不知何处是家乡。


1        紅塵白浪兩茫茫 忍辱柔和是妙方 到處隨緣延歲月 終身安分度時光

世事起落無常,變化多端,就像鬧市飛揚的塵埃,又像互相衝擊、起伏不停的海洋 波浪,那樣模糊無際,不可測度。體諒忍讓,柔順和諧,才是處世聰明靈巧的方法 啊!無論身處何地,不可強求,宜隨順因緣,就當時情況,隨時制宜;一輩子也要 滿足地、安分守己地過日子。

2        休將自己心田昧 莫把他人過失揚 謹慎應酬無懊惱 耐煩作事好商量

不可隱瞞良心,自知不好,仍繼續做著那些邪惡、害己害人的事情。所謂己所不欲, 勿施於人,對於別人的過失,不可到處張揚啊!與人交往應對,宜小心謹慎,切忌 出口傷人,或因言語衝突而起煩惱;有困難或爭議時,動氣無益,宜耐心解決,或 找機會好好溝通、商量。

3        從來硬弩弦先斷 每見剛刀口易傷 惹禍只因閒口舌 招愆多為狠心腸

自古以來,常見強硬的弓弩,其弦線很快折斷,鋒利堅強的鋼刀,其刀口亦易損傷。 飛來橫禍,往往由閒話開始,繼起爭執;罪禍臨身,皆因心狠手辣,害人不淺。

4        是非不必爭人我 彼此何須論短長 世事由來多缺陷 幻軀焉得免無常

其實,何必時常強分你非我是、我長你短呢?世間從來就沒有完美無缺的事物,緣 起如幻、無實自性的軀體,又怎可永存不朽呢?

5        喫些虧處原無礙 退讓三分也不妨 春日纔看楊柳綠 秋風又見菊花黃

吃點虧,讓幾步,於己實在損失不大,不妨接受包容;時移世易,盛衰很快轉移, 試看春天柔美的綠柳景色,很快就被秋天怡人的黃菊所替代了。

6        榮華終是三更夢 富貴還同九月霜 老病死生誰替得 酸甜苦辣自承當

世人只顧追求身外的榮華富貴,忽略了自身的處境。其實,身外的榮華富貴,如夜 中夢、如夏月霜,轉瞬消逝,但自身的生老病死苦,除了自己,有誰可以替代呢?

7        人從巧計誇伶俐 天自從容定主張 諂曲貪瞋墮地獄 公平正直即天堂

自恃聰明的人,苦心積慮所經營的權謀,最後結果,皆難逃自然的因果定理:阿諛 奉承,為私利私憤,作惡多端的,必得惡報,守正不阿,行善積德的,必有善報。

8        麝因香重身先死 蠶為絲多命早亡 一劑養神平胃散 兩鍾和氣二陳湯

麝有貴重的香,蠶有貴重的絲,因而命短,故此,無須過分追求與擁有,閒時不妨 調養精神,清心寡欲,減少一點好勝鬥爭的心態吧。

9        生前枉費心千萬 死後空持手一雙 悲歡離合朝朝鬧 富貴窮通日日忙

世人少悟,不知生前營謀所得,死後只能空手而往;大多數還未覺悟,仍在繼續營 謀,天天鬧著悲歡離合,日日忙著富貴窮通的事情。

10        休得爭強來鬥勝 百年渾是戲文場 頃刻一聲鑼鼓歇 不知何處是家鄉

請盡快停止爭強好勝吧!人生百年,就像做戲一場,不久鑼鼓聲竭,散場閉幕, 又不知隨業流轉至何方所了。

Monday, April 28, 2014

Defrosting...

Before I sleep, I thought I should also record down this episode of reheating of a heart that has turned cold over the years.... Lol

Yesterday marked my 29th year in existence...... I have forgotten how long ago is it that I have removed all indications of that date anywhere except on job application forms and other official documents....

Yet to my surprise, memories of it still exist......... I thank all for the effort and well wishes..... I am grateful. =)

Rebooting...


It has been a while ....

Much have happened over these few months......... It has been 7 (almost 8) months since I left EY and join another organization.

I still miss the old days sometimes.....

But I am very grateful to have a special group of friends (sc,cj,pr,hh,cjy) who have showed me great support and timely companionship in this difficult transition period.

Over these few months, I keep having the view that I have entered into a treacherous world where dark creatures dwell.... And so ......I became more and more miserable as days went by..........my motivation level drops and I seem to have lost passion for everything...... repeating each day in a zombie liked manner

Events and circumstances finally led me to reflect on what is going on with my life and what has gone wrong......

I finally realized that the root of the problem lies not in my new environment but in my own views. I was too arrogant and disdainful of the new elements.......I was too stubborn to change.......and most importantly, I lacked new worthy goals to pursue.

Having now gained clarity of the situation, a new game plan is drawn up for breakthrough and progress

-Specific goals worthy of pursuit set
-An open and relax mind shall be cultivated, humility must be restored, and patience will be practiced
-Make it a habit to think only positive thoughts and focus only on positivity


What I focus on determines my reality. 


Enough ramblings for now....... Yawnzzz.....

Thursday, December 12, 2013

Toil

Relentlessly I toil
On this beautiful land
Even though the harvest will not be mine
But still I toil...
For I still love this land of my choice.

-songs of the farmers from the tribe whose flame within have died

Friday, July 26, 2013

6 Shortcuts

1) Reciprocity
-obligation to give when you receive
-be the first to give and it should be unexpected

2) Scarcity
- people want more of those that are getting less
- not enough to just show benefits, should show whats unique and what they stand to lose

3) Authority
- people follow the lead of credible, knowledgeable experts

4) Consistency
- people like to be consistent, so ask for small, public, and active commitments that can be made
- get those commitments in writing

5) Liking
- people prefer to say yes to those they like
- people like those that are similar to them, pay them compliments, and those that cooperate with them

6) Consencus
- when people are uncertain, they look to what similar others are doing

Tuesday, May 14, 2013

一, 二, 三, 四, 五, 六

一、心甘情願吃虧的人,終究吃不了虧。 能吃虧的人,人緣必然好,人緣好的人, 機會自然多。人的一生,能抓住一兩次機會,足矣!

二、愛佔便宜的人,終究占不了便宜,撿 到一棵草,失去一片森林。你看那些一到買單就上廁所或錢包半天掏不出來的聰明人,基本上都沒啥成就。

三、只有惜緣才能續緣。在人生的路上, 我們會遇到很多人,其實有緣才能相聚, 親人多半是前世的好友,好友多半是前世的親人,給你帶來煩惱的,多半是你前世 傷害過的。因此切記:善待身邊的親人, 關心身邊的朋友,寬恕那些傷害你的人。 這就是因果。

四、心中無缺叫富,被人需要叫貴。快樂不是一種性格,而是一種能力。

五、笑看風雲淡,坐對雲起時。不爭就是 慈悲,不辯就是智慧,不聞就是清淨,不看就是自在,原諒就是解脫,知足就是放 下。

六、不亂于心,不困于情,不畏將來,不念過往。


- compassion life society

Sunday, April 21, 2013

「因果不虛」

「因果不虛」

世間沒有好,也沒有壞,只有因果在,
世間沒有對,也沒有錯,只有分別在,
世間沒有是,也沒有非,只有執著在。
...
願有緣人能深信因果,
放下妄想、分別、執著,
放下貪嗔癡慢,
放下五欲六塵,
放下人我是非。
放下恩恩怨怨。

Friday, April 19, 2013

when in doubt...go back to first principle

I shall not be influenced by internal or external forces...this will be achieved by constantly being aware that I have a choice and the ability to respond in the most appropriate way under any circumstances

I shall observe and adjust accordingly so that I acquire the necessary experience and skills to respond appropriately under any circumstances

I shall constanly seek out that which do not change in order to remember that everything is subject to change

I shall abide by a set of core values as a guide when making choices

I will contsantly review these values to suit any changes that come along

These values are humility, sincerity, clamness,

Thursday, April 11, 2013

5 Things to know abt home loan in Singapore

Five Details That Matter
If there was a Home Loans Monthly magazine, it’d be illegal to read it aloud. The resulting boredom would send half a district into a coma.
So it’s not surprising that most people don’t keep up with home loans; not until they need one. Then they wander into the market wide-eyed and confused, like Bambi staring down the barrel of a shotgun. The lucky ones pick through the banker’s jargon, and realize:
  • The Main Difference Between SIBOR and SOR
  • What the “X” Months in Front of the Interbank Rate Means
  • Fixed Rates in Singapore Don’t Last the Entire Loan
  • Variable Rates May Not Be Transparent
  • Property Agents Get Paid When They Refer You to Bankers
1. The Main Difference Between SIBOR and SOR
SIBOR and SOR are both interbank rates.
SIBOR (Singapore Inter-Bank Offered Rate) tracks the rate at which local banks lend to each other. Almost every country has its own counterpart, such as JIBOR (Jakarta Inter-Bank Offered Rate) in Indonesia, and the now notorious LIBOR (London Inter-Bank Offered Rate) in the UK.
And before you ask, no, SIBOR is not as easy to “fix” as LIBOR. SIBOR rates are based on transactions, whereas LIBOR rates were based on hypothetical estimates (read: whatever the hell their bankers felt like).
“So the dollar fights the %, and then…Mr Ong, I really don’t know how to simplify this further.”

SOR (Swap Offer Rate) is based on foreign exchange rates, between the US dollar and Singapore dollar. You can check the SIBOR or SOR rates yourself.
With some exceptions, SIBOR and SOR move in tandem. When SOR rises, SIBOR tends to rise. When SOR falls, SIBOR tends to fall. So what’s the difference between them?
Volatility.
SOR is sensitive to global market shifts. Because SIBOR is local, it responds more sluggishly to changes outside Singapore. So when the SIBOR rate moves, it does so by a smaller margin than the SOR rate.
As an example:
On 2 July 2012, the SIBOR rate was around 0.38%. A month later, on 1 August 2012, the SIBOR rate was around 0.37%. That’s a movement of about 0.01%.
On 2 July 2012, the SOR rate was also around 0.38%. On 1 August 2012, the SOR rate was around 0.35%. That’s a movement of around 0.03%. Note that SOR’s margin of movement was three times greater.
That makes SOR better suited to risk-takers. When the SOR rate drops, you save more money compared to SIBOR. But when the SOR rate rises, you also lose more.



2. What the “X” Months in Front of the Interbank Rate Means

At least it’s not *unplanned* homelessness.

A SIBOR or SOR rate is expressed with a number of months in front of it. For example, a loan package could be based on “3 months SIBOR”, or “1 month SOR”.
The number of months determines how often your interest rate is “refreshed”. If you take a 1 month SIBOR, for example, your interest rate will adjust to match SIBOR every month. That means your loan repayments can be different every month. If you take a 3 month SIBOR, your interest rate will only adjust every 3 months.
Interbank rates can come in 1, 2, 3, 6, 9, or 12 month rates. However, most home loans will only use a 1 month or 3 months rate.
In general, 1 month SIBOR / SOR tends to be cheaper during a down trend (when interest rates show a pattern of falling). During an up trend, the opposite is true.


3. Fixed Rates in Singapore Don’t Last the Entire Loan

“Funny enough, there’s a difference between fixed rates and rate fixing. Now please call off the police.”

In other countries, fixed rates can last the entire loan tenure. Your loan repayments could be the exact same amount, from year 1 to 30. But that’s too unexciting for Singaporeans.
In Singapore, most fixed rate packages last three years. After that, you’re back on a floating rate. The only way to “extend” your fixed rate is to refinance. You need to find another bank that’s offering a fixed rate, and then switch your loan to that bank.
If you insist on fixed rates, it’s advisable to start looking toward the end of your third year; this will give you time to compare rates. You can find the information on free loan comparison sites like SmartLoans.sg.
Or follow us on Facebook; we’ll let you know when we see interesting loan packages.


4. Variable Rates May Not Be Transparent

“Alright, I’ll let you know the board rates in a minute. Distract that guard.”

In Singapore, the term “variable rate” often means a loan package which uses neither SIBOR nor SOR. Instead, such packages are tied to a IBR (Internal Board Rate).
Each bank manages its own Internal Board Rate. Banks sometimes disclose the history of their board rate, in an attempt to convince clients. But for the most part, there is little transparency in a variable rate. Likewise, banks do not need to justify movements in their board rate; this is different from SIBOR or SOR, which are public and regulated.
I’m not implying that banks lie about their board rates. I’m implying it’s easy if they want to. So while a board rate may seem cheap, just ask yourself: How much do I trust this bank?


5. Property Agents Get Paid When They Refer You to Bankers


“In conclusion, this banker knows what he’s doing. I mean, this coffee house is awesome.”

Property agents can be demanding with regard to bankers. Sometimes they’ll threaten to raise prices, or to let a deal fall through, unless you use “their” banker.
That’s because the agents want a referral fee. When your agent directs you to a banker, and you get your home loan from that banker, the agent gets paid for it. Problem is, the property agent might not care that you’re getting a bad loan.
When your property agent refers you to a banker, always get a second opinion. Compare home loans yourself, and find the best deal.






Saturday, April 6, 2013

Controversial Math Problems

Controversial Math Problems

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Wednesday, March 20, 2013

Faith Reason Passion


As reason is a rebel to faith, so passion is a rebel to reason.

- Thomas Browne

Sunday, December 9, 2012

I think I have lost my direction in life...
Or maybe I can say I have never found a direction in life...

Sometimes I feel like a hamster running round and round in the wheel...
I have forgotten what I am looking for...

Sometimes I am so tired...

Why do I feel this constant discontentment....
Nothing seems interesting anymore...

Suddenly I know why...
Because its Sunday night....

Wednesday, October 3, 2012

Endless Struggles..

Looking back...I am proud I am still around
I am looking forward to the added responsibilities ahead

But the sudden thought of how things might eventually turn out
saddened me....

"Step by step towards excellence"

My primary school motto...
I still believe in it...
but every step seems harder...needs more effort...
I guess this is inevitable..

"what if I cannot make it till the end..."

This thought has dampened my spirit many times recently
I wonder how long can I stay positive...


Key Takeaway

CTQR

Rule of 3

Friday, August 24, 2012

敢问路在何方 (May I ask where is the path...)

This is the theme song of the chinese classic Journey to The West. Many lessons, many inspirations.
The chinese lyrics and video are as follow:-

Journey to the West Theme Song (video and song)
Journey to the West Theme Song (just song)

担 ,
日出 , 晚霞   
坎坷 , 大道
艰险   
出发 , 出发

番番 春秋
酸甜
 
脚下

番番春秋
酸甜

脚下
~~~~~~~~

担 ,
水 ,   
风云雷电 , 叱咤
一路  
天涯 , 天涯

番番春秋
酸甜

脚下

啦…  
番番春秋
酸甜


脚下

脚下 ...


A rough translation of the song.

(You) Carrying the baggages , (I) leading the horse
(We) Welcoming the sunrise, sending off the sunset
Smoothing the rough road ahead, (turning it into) the great path
Quelling struggles, difficulties and troubles
Here we go again, here we go again...
la .. la... la...
Turning the seasons again and again
Tasting the flavours of life again and again
May I ask where is the path...
Look no further but under your feet
la..la..la...
~~~~~~~~~~~~
(You) Carrying the baggages , (I) leading the horse
Crossing countless mountains and waters, flakes and frost on the shoulders...
Let the wind howls and the thunder roars
Singing the carefree song all the way
Towards the furthest end of Earth, towards the furthest end of Earth...
la...la...la...
Turning the seasons again and again
Tasting the flavours of life again and again
May I ask where is the path...
Look no further but under your feet
la...la...la
Turning the seasons again and again
Tasting the flavours of life again and again
May I ask where is the path...
Look no further but under your feet
May I ask where is the path...
Look no further but under your feet

Wednesday, August 15, 2012

Angry Mind

 
The hostile multitudes are vast as space...
 
What chance is there that all are subdued?
 
.....
 
Let but this angry mind be overthrown...
 
And every foe is then and there destroyed.
 
 
-Shantideva
 
 
 

Wednesday, August 8, 2012

"忍一时风平浪气
退一步海阔天空"


Those who are determined to achieve great things must have the strength to face the difficulties at every moment without losing composure and inner tranquility.


"...Despite the difficulties of the moment, I still have a dream..."


大肚能容,容天下难容之亊.
开口就笑,笑天下可笑之人.