Decision Making

Life is filled with times when we have to make decisions.
Very often, many hesitate when the need arises due to fear of making a bad one.

The fear of making a bad decision arises from the reluctance to face the consequences.

However...

The important thing is not how good or bad a decision is....but whether any decision is made at all. We paused to think only when there are incoming evidence that could assist us in making a better decision.

So let us not fear the consequences....instead...we should make the best effort to follow through our decisions.

Life has always been such....isnt it?....not knowing what lies ahead...put in the best effort and see where we end up.....for every day is a new hope!

Its the time of the year again!

LETS GET INTO THE HUAT CHOY SPIRIT!

WHOLE LOT HUAT AR!!!!!

Funeral Blues - Stop All the Clocks

Stop all the clocks, cut off the telephone,
Prevent the dog from barking with a juicy bone,
Silence the pianos and with muffled drum
Bring out the coffin, let the mourners come.

Let aeroplanes circle moaning overhead
Scribbling on the sky the message He is Dead.
Put crepe bows round the white necks of the public doves,
Let the traffic policemen wear black cotton gloves.

He was my North, my South, my East and West,
My working week and my Sunday rest,
My noon, my midnight, my talk, my song;
I thought that love would last forever: I was wrong.

The stars are not wanted now; put out every one,
Pack up the moon and dismantle the sun,
Pour away the ocean and sweep up the woods;
For nothing now can ever come to any good.

- W.H.Auden

委屈...

sometimes some ppl just have the aura to make others feel bad...
sometimes some position does not allow you to speak freely...
sometimes you just feel like letting it all go and dont give a damn anymore...

but this is only sometimes...

most of the time, there are still nice ppl ard...nice happenings...

so.....

FORWARD MARCH! let the rotten stay behind and rot!

another parting...

had a farewell dinner for a friend today...
happy and sad ...

sad because,

is one of the first few friends i made in EY...
time together may be short but have been through quite a bit as a team...
always friendly and showing concern for others...

happy because,

has found a direction in life...
has found the courage to work towards it...



All the best to you , my friend...
May you fare well in whatever you do

The 3 Magic Phrase

These 3 magic phrase strung together with a genuine level of sincerity can work miracles,

"I am sorry"

"I was wrong"

"It was my fault"

- adapted from a book

Developing Basic Trust

Having basic trust is about allowing our life to flow gently down the stream.
Trust that whatever happens to us is exactly what is suppose to happen.
Things may not be good but trust that it is necessary, due to past actions.
It doesnt matter how bad something is, trust that it will eventually pass.

- adapted from a book