the atmosphere doesnt seems right...

its the time of the year again where the whole family sits around the "fire pot" talk cok...sing song...eat meat...

everyone is there...theres a variety of good food...

BUT

somehow the atmosphere doesnt seems right this year...i also dont know why...something is jus not right...

Gathering of the Woodlanders!

Finally met up with some primary school friends yesterday.
Haven seen some of them since I left primary school.
Played card games and updated each other on our "current affairs".

Many times...it just take some initiatives to effect a great deal of changes...
Yet many times...it is this lack of initiatives that many connections are lost...

which is the best move?

A: What is the meaning of life?
B: By asking this question...it is like asking a chess master which is the best move in the world...

find meaning in the situation...in the context...in the moment

NLP Series Part 4

Thinking is using the senses internally...
People have preference as to which senses are used...
The way people think will depends on which senses are used...
How a person think is usually reflected by his or her speech and body language...

Communciation between people can be improved by understanding how others think and building rapport with them...

One technique is Pacing and Leading ...

Pacing - buiding the bridge between people through establishing rapport and understanding

Leading - changing one's behaviour so that others follow